Jacqueline Bonestroo
Coach
Hi! I am Jackie, a transformation coach, best-selling author, and speaker. I help Christians who have been afflicted by betrayal, abuse, and divorce overcome lies, emerge strong, live confidently, and fear less!
After moving from the East Coast to the West Coast with my family at the tender age of 15, I met a man three years my senior. We were married shortly after I graduated from high school. He controlled and abused me for the next 20 years.
By sharing my personal experiences of the abuse in my first marriage, my clients not only learn how to fully forgive but also how to reclaim their true identity, joy, and voice so that they, like me, can experience life-changing purpose from their pain.
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Today Is The Day: 3 Best Ways To Overcome Fear And Negative Thinking by Jacqueline Bonestroo
This eBook is one of Jacqueline Bonestroo's most popular publications available as a free download. Inside of this ebook, you will learn:
- Breathe! Learning this simple practice calms us in times of crisis and triggers.
- Restore Hope; All you need to begin is faith the size of a mustard seed.
- The Now and the Next; My proven method to calm the feeling of overwhelm.
Still feeling stuck in the pain of what you’ve been through?
Jacqueline Bonestroo helps Christians who’ve walked through betrayal, abuse, and divorce break free from the lies, rise with purpose, and live boldly, full of faith, confidence, and courage.
You weren’t created to carry this weight forever. Ignoring the hurt won’t heal it but healing is possible. You’re in the right place to start your transformation. The only thing standing between who you are now and who you’re becoming… is your next step of faith.
There’s a path to breakthrough,
are you on it?
Transformation doesn’t happen by accident. It happens when you align with truth, take brave action, and invite God to lead your steps.
Jacqueline Bonestroo has discovered a powerful process any person of faith can follow to experience emotional freedom, spiritual growth, and a renewed identity.
Life will always have valleys but you don’t have to live in them. Through faith-filled coaching, biblical teaching, and practical tools, Jackie helps you walk in joy again and build a future you can’t wait to wake up to.
We help you heal, rise, and thrive with lasting transformation rooted in truth. But don’t just take our word for it… we’ll show you what’s possible.
Whether through coaching, online training, or speaking engagements, we offer biblically grounded, soul-deep support to help you walk in freedom. With tools that transform from the inside out, our programs are built on unshakable principles that create real change spiritually, emotionally, and practically.
All The Tools You Need To
Rebuild, Rise, and Walk Fearlessly
COACHING
What do Michael Jordan, Princess Diana, C.S. Lewis, and Oprah Winfrey all have in common? They understood the power of support. No matter how far along they were in their journey, they leaned on coaches to help them grow, stay grounded, and reach their full potential. If you’re ready to move beyond survival and start living with boldness, our Christ-centered coaching programs are designed to walk with you. You’ll gain clarity, rebuild confidence, and learn how to navigate life’s challenges with truth and grace. Learn more about how coaching can support your transformation here.
ONLINE TRAINING
Longing for personal growth, but not sure how to make it fit into your busy life? You’re not alone. That’s why we offer powerful, on-demand video trainings filled with biblical wisdom, real-world application, and heartfelt encouragement.
Jacqueline Bonestroo brings her passion, experience, and deep faith into every course so you can experience change at your own pace. Whether you’re healing from a painful past or seeking spiritual renewal, these trainings will speak to your heart and equip you to move forward in freedom.
PUBLIC SPEAKING
When it comes to making your event unforgettable, it’s not just about inspiration, it’s about transformation.
Jacqueline Bonestroo brings decades of ministry experience, powerful personal testimony, and Spirit-led teaching to every stage she steps onto. Whether speaking to women’s groups, churches, or conferences, she delivers messages that captivate, educate, and activate.
With warmth, humor, and truth, Jacqueline Bonestroo equips audiences to break free from fear and step into the identity God designed for them.
M.A.
"My daughter was struggling with grief and worthiness before working with Coach Jackie. With Coach Jackie's help, she learned to talk about and work through her feelings. Today, my daughter is a joyful, strong, confident young woman who is pursuing her passions. If your teen is struggling with grief, worthiness, or identity, I highly recommend working with Coach Jackie."
M.L.
"Before working with Coach Jackie, I was struggling with feeling alive. She helped me work through the lies that had taken root from years of verbal abuse from a spouse, a decade of pain.
Today I am living, truly breathing! I know my identity and worth. If you are struggling with hopelessness, I highly recommend you work with her."
C.L.
"Thoughts of unworthiness and abandonment played on repeat in my mind before working with Coach Jackie. Let me simply say it this way: life was a struggle!
Today, my thoughts are focused on the fact that I am worthy, chosen, and redeemed. I thank God for Coach Jackie every day. I highly recommend you work with her. "
E.P.
"My teenage grandson was struggling with feelings of abandonment and self-worth before working with Coach Jackie. She helped him work through painful memories with Biblical truth.
Today, he is hopeful, forgiving, and growing in his relationships as well as his faith. If you have a teen who is struggling with tough questions, Jackie's coaching and support will help them overcome lies and believe the truth. I highly recommend working with her."
C.B.
"Before working with Coach Jackie. I was not living life to the full. She helped me work through the pain of narcissistic abuse, triggers, and the ongoing maze of divorce. She even helped me quit smoking! Today I am walking free with boldness, living joyfully during the trials, and closer than ever with Jesus! If you are struggling with the pain of a failed relationship, either past or current, especially if you have experienced abuse, and want to reconnect with who God designed you to be, I highly recommend working with Coach Jackie."
From The Blog
Fill Your Cup Before You Serve From It
You’ve likely heard the phrase, “you can’t pour from an empty cup.” And it’s true, especially when you’re healing from deep wounds or pouring into others. This is your reminder: rest is sacred. Jesus Himself stepped away to pray and recharge. So can you.
Celebrate Every Step Toward Healing
Life takes on new meaning when we start noticing the progress, not just the finish line. Every boundary set, every lie rejected, every moment of courage, it’s all worth celebrating. Don’t downplay the small wins. They’re proof you’re moving forward.
God Has a Plan, Now Let’s Build With Him
You’ve received the vision, now it’s time for the plan. Look honestly at where you are, ask God what’s next, and start building step-by-step. When we align with His timing and wisdom, even our broken pieces become part of something beautiful.
Jacqueline Bonestroo
Coach
Hi! I am Jackie, a transformation coach, best-selling author, and speaker. I help Christians who have been afflicted by betrayal, abuse, and divorce overcome lies, emerge strong, live confidently, and fear less!
After moving from the East Coast to the West Coast with my family at the tender age of 15, I met a man three years my senior. We were married shortly after I graduated from high school. He controlled and abused me for the next 20 years.
By sharing my personal experiences of the abuse in my first marriage, my clients not only learn how to fully forgive but also how to reclaim their true identity, joy, and voice so that they, like me, can experience life-changing purpose from their pain.
I have served in ministry for over 30 years. With a contagious love for Jesus and a story for almost everything, I help my clients grow deeper in their faith through a greater understanding of who God is and who He says His children are.
I live by the North Carolina coast with my second husband, Doug, and our three rescue cats playfully known as The Flower Girls.
I am a caretaker of my rose garden, a crafter, a frequent flyer, and a 5K racer. I am mom to two beloved married daughters, an outstanding grandson, and I am joyfully awaiting our newest addition to the family this fall.
Here are the reasons you can depend on Jacqueline Bonestroo to help you overcome lies, emerge strong. live confidently and fear-less:
- REPUTABLE – Jacqueline Bonestroo is a respected leader in her field and community.
- EXPERIENCED – Our proudest accomplishment is the large number of long term clients who put their trust in us year after year.
- INTEGRITY – Building a reputation of integrity takes years, but it takes only a second to lose. We don’t believe in cutting corners. The foundation of our reputation is our commitment to do the right thing at all times, regardless of whether anyone is watching.
- RESOURCES – We offer a wide variety of development and training programs built on timeless principles that get results.
- CUSTOMIZABLE – All of our curriculum can be customized to specifically address your individual and organizational needs.
- 100% SATISFACTION GUARANTEE – We want you to be completely satisfied with our services. We will do whatever it takes to make you happy. No hassles, no problems.
Our biblical coaching framework is designed to create lasting breakthrough in less time so you don’t have to stay stuck another day. We’ll help you face what’s been standing in your way and walk with you as you rebuild, renew, and rise. You’ll gain tools to move forward in faith and freedom fully supported and never alone.
Here’s what our coaching clients receive:
- A personalized, prayerful approach tailored to your season and goals
- Accountability sessions for consistency and momentum
- Action steps to apply biblical truth in your everyday life
- Direct email support between sessions for added encouragement
- Safe, confidential space for processing, accountability, and growth
- And so much more!
You don’t have to do this alone. Even world changers like Michael Jordan, Princess Diana, C.S. Lewis, Oprah leaned on coaches to help them rise higher. Coaching is a proven path to clarity, strength, and success. If you’re ready to move from surviving to thriving, it’s time to take your next faithful step.
Let’s pursue your healing and growth together.
Overcoming Crisis
There are seasons in life when it feels like everything is falling apart. Maybe it’s one specific area like your finances or marriage or maybe crisis hits multiple places at once: your relationships, your health, your faith, your peace of mind. You feel stuck, overwhelmed, and unsure how to move forward.
That’s when it’s time to lean into truth and learn how to overcome crisis with confidence and clarity.
- How to Rise When Life Feels Like It’s Falling Apart
- 5 Faith-Filled Tools to Break Through Fear and Hopelessness
- A Step-by-Step System to Regain Control and Direction
- The 3 Spiritual Blind Spots That Can Keep You Stuck
- How to Turn Risk Into a Catalyst for Growth and Trust
Want real transformation, but can’t imagine squeezing one more thing into your calendar?
That’s why we created online training you can access anytime, anywhere with the same heart, depth, and impact as in-person mentorship.
Jacqueline Bonestroo offers powerful, Spirit-led video trainings that meet you right where you are. Each lesson is filled with wisdom, encouragement, and real-life application to help you move from stuck to strong. Whether you’re in a season of rebuilding or stepping into new purpose, these teachings are designed to equip and empower you.
You’ll walk away with greater confidence, spiritual insight, and practical tools to help you navigate life’s challenges through a lens of faith. The lessons you’ll learn won’t just shift your mindset, they’ll impact your daily walk for years to come.
We’ve intentionally created content that’s simple to follow and easy to apply. Each training is divided into short, focused lessons that walk you step-by-step through the process so you never feel lost or overwhelmed.
Think about it…
There’s never been a better moment to grow in both faith and wisdom. With online access to world-class, Christ-centered training, your next breakthrough could begin today. The door is open. All you have to do is step in.
Dealing With Divorce
Are you feeling emotionally drained, spiritually exhausted, or unsure of how to move forward after divorce? You’re not alone and you don’t have to stay stuck. Healing is possible, and this season doesn’t define the rest of your life.
The pain of divorce can impact every part of you, your mind, body, emotions, and faith. From sleepless nights to identity loss to anxiety about the future, it’s easy to feel overwhelmed. But you can protect your peace and begin to rebuild one step at a time with the right tools and support.
Picture this: a clearer mind, a lighter heart, and a restored sense of who you are in Christ. Join us for this powerful online training where we’ll walk through how to process the pain, release the shame, and rediscover your joy. You’ll gain practical strategies to help you not just survive but truly heal and thrive.
Here’s what you’ll learn:
- How to Set Boundaries and Say “No” Without Guilt
- Grace-Based Coping Tools for Emotionally Intense Moments
- Letting Go of Perfectionism, Pressure, and Comparison
- The 3 Spiritual Practices That Bring Immediate Peace
- How to Laugh, Rest, and Dream Again After Divorce
Are you searching for a speaker who brings more than just motivation? Someone who connects deeply, speaks boldly, and leaves your audience changed? You’re in the right place.
When you invite Jacqueline Bonestroo to speak at your church, conference, or community event, you’re getting more than a script, you’re getting a custom message crafted for your audience, their needs, and your event’s mission. Jackie takes time to understand your heart and your people, so the message truly resonates and results in lasting impact.
With a heartfelt delivery, Spirit-led presence, and decades of ministry experience, Jackie invites audiences to overcome fear, walk in truth, and step fully into their God-given identity. Her warmth, authenticity, and wisdom create an atmosphere where hearts soften and lives shift.
As a trusted voice in Christian coaching and spiritual growth, Jacqueline Bonestroo is a highly sought-after speaker known for turning real-life stories into transformational insight. Her messages leave audiences feeling seen, stirred, and ready to rise.
Our speaking calendar fills up quickly, so we encourage you to reach out today to schedule a 15-minute discovery call and see if we’re the right fit for your upcoming event.
Spiritual Growth
Faith doesn’t mean life is easy, it means you don’t walk it alone.
In this powerful session on spiritual growth, you’ll discover how to deepen your walk with God, anchor your identity in truth, and grow through every season especially the hard ones.
Jackie will challenge and encourage you with Scripture-based insights that strengthen your spirit and renew your mind. You’ll leave equipped not just to believe in God’s promises, but to live like they’re already yours.
Here’s what you’ll explore in this transformational session:
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How to Build Unshakable Faith When Life Feels Uncertain
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5 Biblical Tools for Growing Through Every Storm
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Questions That Draw You Closer to God’s Heart
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Spirit-Led Strategies for Daily Alignment and Focus
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Relentless Trust: What It Looks Like to Walk in True Surrender
Spiritual growth doesn’t happen by accident. It happens when you lean in, rise up, and trust God to do a deeper work in you. Let’s grow together.
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Today Is The Day
3 Best Ways To Overcome Fear And Negative Thinking
by Jacqueline Bonestroo
This eBook is one of Jacqueline Bonestroo's most popular publications available as a free download.
- Breathe! Learning this simple practice calms us in times of crisis and triggers.
- Restore Hope; All you need to begin is faith the size of a mustard seed.
- The Now and the Next; My proven method to calm the feeling of overwhelm.
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